Some people need soft and some people need firm.
Some people like a firm mattress with a very plush top. Really the only thing that matters is what your body is telling you when you lie down.
The main thing you can do is to make sure the mattress you are purchasing comes with a comfort warranty — because you really won’t know how you did picking your mattress until you have slept on it a few nights.
This is why you get 90 days to try out a Delarkin mattress. We are completely committed to your comfort.